"True LOVE"

True love means the fight has disappeared, the two have become one. Their bodies exist separately but their being has mingled. The boundaries are lost, there is no division. There is no ‘I’ and no ‘thou’, no one exists.

If you really want to feel and understand True Love then- First become alone. First start enjoying yourself. First love yourself. First become so authentically happy that if nobody comes it doesn't matter, you are full, overflowing. If nobody knocks at your door it is perfectly okay -- YOU are not missing. You are not waiting for somebody to come and knock at the door. You are at home. If somebody comes, good, beautiful. If nobody comes, that too is beautiful and good.

Without loving yourself you can never love any other person.

The moment you fall in love with someone, what actually happens? What transpires between those two who have fallen in love with each other? They drop their egos -- at least for each other. They drop their hypocrisies, their masks. They want to be together, almost one soul within two bodies. That's the desire of love.They don't use each other. Rather, on the contrary, they both become one and enjoy the existence that surrounds them.

LOVE IS JUST LIKE when you enter into a swimming pool, step by step you are going into deeper water.

Two ordinary lovers who are both lonely always face each other, two real lovers, on a full moon night, will not be facing each other. They may be holding hands, but they will be facing the full moon high in the sky.

They will not be facing each other, they will be together facing something else.True Love give as power and make us strong to face any situation.But whatsoever the situation, the love is unconditional, it doesn’t depend on conditions.Love is giving freedom to the other. Love is an unconditional gift, it is not a bargain.

In love, there is gratitude, there is a deep gratefulness. You know that the other is not a thing. You know that the other has a grandeur, a personality, a soul, an individuality. In love you give total freedom to the other. Of course, you give and you take, it is a give-and-take relationship — but with Respect.