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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

"A True Story Of Immortal Love"


Love they say is one of the most beautiful feelings. It is an essential part of life, whether ancient or modern- it is never out of season. Read this story to realize the importance of romance in the spirit of love!
Immortal Love Story Of Meera:

1498 CE. The royals of Merta, a small state in Rajasthan were rejoicing. A baby girl was born to them. She was named Meera. Like other Rajput girls, Meera had to learn a lot of things. She learned music and many stories from the Scriptures, but also how to fight with bows and arrows, and with a sword, how to ride a horse and drive a horse-drawn chariot. She had to.
One day, when Meera was about four years old, she heard the sounds of joyful music just outside their palace walls.It was a marriage procession. The groom was leading it, riding a white horse. He was wearing a jeweled turban, looking like a young king. Everyone in the party was happy, singing and dancing as they went! Meera was happy watching them.
She ran excitedly to her mother.
“May we go with them, Ma?” Meera asked.

“No, Meera, not this time. You are too young.” Her mother replied. Then she picked Meera up and said, “Can you see the handsome fellow on the white horse?”

“Yes, Ma. I see him. He is wearing a turban like father does. Where is he going?”

“He is the groom. He is going over to marry his bride.”

After watching the marriage party for sometime, Meera thought of another question. “Will I be married, Ma? Who will be my groom?”

“O, Meera, you are too young.”

“No, no, Ma! Please tell me who?”

“Hmm…let’s see who will be my Meera’s groom.. who will he be? Why yes, I know. You will marry Thakurji, Krishna Bhagavan.” Meera’s mother said half in jest as she ran her fingers through Meera’s pretty curls, tousling them.
“Is that so, Ma? Please give me my husband, Krishna Bhagavan.”

So they went to the shrine. Meera’s mother picked up a really beautiful, black stone statue of Lord Krishna, playing the flute and gave it to her. “Here is your groom.” That was how Meera knew that she was to marry Lord Krishna.
Not too long after that, Meera’s mother passed away. And then her grandfather also passed away.
Meera grew up to be a most beautiful young princess. Everyone far and wide heard about her beauty. But few knew about her love and devotion to Lord Krishna. Meera had many talents, she was a poet and a singer. She wrote songs and sang them to Lord Krishna.

One day, when Meera was eighteen years old, they had a visitor. It was Rana Singh Sisodiya, king of neighboring Mewar. He wanted to join forces with the Rathores in their common battles against the Mughals. He proposed that Rathore princess be wed to his son crown prince Bhoj Raj. The marriage was settled, and Meera was to be married to prince Bhoj. Meera herself was not keen about the marriage, but agreed to it only to honor her uncle’s word. Before the marriage, she ceremoniously married Lord Krishna. Her uncle and aunt gave many gifts, and send them off to the house of Sisodiyas at Chittor.

Meera’s marriage to Bhoj was in name only. At heart, Meera was married only to Lord Krishna. She was gentle with her husband Bhoj and her family, and served them with all her abilities, but loved only Lord Krishna. Prince Bhoj loved Meera, and tried his best to make her happy. He wanted her company, but Meera spent all her free time for Lord Krishna, writing songs and singing them. She sang:

My only husband is Giridhar Gopal (Lord Krishna), and nobody else.

Other members of the Sisodiya family began to disapprove of her ways. They thought that Meera was too proud and did not want to belong to their family. Bhoj Raj tried his best to make peace in the family, but that was not to be. None of the discontent was noticed by Meera. She couldn’t think of anything else other than her true love, Lord Krishna.

Among those that came to Brindavan during this time was her husband, who begged her forgiveness and asked her to return to the palace with him. Meera went back, but unfortunately her husband died, and his younger brother, the new Rana, began to carry out what would today be called a hate campaign. He sent her a snake, which turned into a garland when it reached her. He mixed poison in a cup and asked her to drink it, but it didn't affect her.

Meera sang:

O Rana! You gave me poison drink but I became gold burned in fire.

At the end, Meera’s in-laws suggested that she should go to the river and drown herself. Meera decided to do this. When she went to the river, she heard a Divine voice, “Meera, it is a very grave sin to kill oneself. Go to Vrindavan.”
She went in search of Him, to Brindavan, to Mathura, and Dwarka. She felt that Krishna too was calling her as he came near.

In Vrindavan, Meera came to the monastery of Jiva Goswami. She wanted to see him. Goswamiji had earlier taken a vow that he will not see any woman. The disciples of Goswamiji did not want to let her in. Meera said, “I thought that in Vrindavan, Lord Krishna is the only male person. Now I see that Jiva Goswamiji is another.” All devotees, man and woman, consider themselves to be Spiritual brides of Lord Krishna, just as the gopis did. When the disciples brought the news to Goswamiji, he realized that he had a really special visitor and came out to greet her with folded hands. Meera became Sant Meerabai.

She only wrote for Krishna, at that time she wrote more then 400 poems for Krishna. She only love Krishna and all day- night only think about Krishna.

After sometime
The Rajputs fought on till 1535 CE, when the nawab of Gujarat, Bahadur Shah, defeated them. To avoid being captured, Rajput women committed mass suicide in fire. Later, in 1547 CE, the elder Rajputs sent for her, asking her to return home. Meera refused to go. Then they sent a group of priests to reason with her. The priests told her that they will fast until she relents.

Meera entered the temple, to pray and ask Lord Krishna what she should do. Lord Krishna told her to come to Him. As she approached the stone image of the Lord, her body disappeared into it. Only her sari was found draped around the image.

This is a true story of immortal love. Without meeting Meera only love Krishna and lost her life at the name of Krishna.

Saturday, December 25, 2010

"I will be the same"-Love poem

I love the way you look at me,
I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "You are ma Babe,"
And the way you're always there.
You change my Life in a moment
You are only one who give me Love & Tears
You hurt me many times, you give Love a bad name
You promise me heaven then put me through hell
I play my part and you play your game
You play your game.... You give Love a bad name
I don't know you, I don't know
I don't see you, but care for you
You think I can't hear you, can't hear
But I hear your voice every day-night
I doesn't even know your name
I love the way you touch my heart,
I love that you are with me,
You forget your promise but I am not like you
I am still same & never change
And
I will be the same…

I know You don’t wanna be here no more
You’ve opened up your eyes and you need to go
To another place
Though it’s dark you’ll reach the shore
And time will see you find what you’re looking for…

Although time will carry on and everything will change
You can know that I will be the same…
While the tide will take us under, when nothing else remains…
You can know that I will be the same…

You can know that I will be the same…

When nothing else remains…
You can know that I will be the same…

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Friday, December 10, 2010

"I am Beautiful" by Kanchan Bagari


I believe in GOD!
Everything which He created is beautiful,
I was also created by Him.... I am beautiful.

He gave me beautiful LIFE... I can see the beauty in my Life.
He gave me HOPE... I am hopeful.
He gave me SALVATION
He gave me MERCY

He gave me a good brain.... I can think good
He gave me good vision.... I can see good
He gave me good speech.... I can speak good.

Whatever beauty I have in my Life cause of Him...
I am beautiful .... I was created by Him.

He gave me EVERYTHING

Everything I have is because of Him
Everything I am is because of Him
Everything I have is because of His Love

AND I AM BEAUTIFUL!!!!

No matter what other people think ..
I know I am BEAUTIFUL because I was created by HIM!!!

AND I AM BEAUTIFUL!!!!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

"A Story Of Bird" by Kanchan Bagari

A bird got so badly broken,
That he could not get healed again....
Somebody stole (the wings) from the Bird in such a way,
That he could not fly again....

Falling from the sky....
He hit the ground.
Still, in his dreams----were the clouds
And he kept saying........
That----man of GOD! you keep smiling.....keep smiling....
Tomorrow, you will again get a chance.

Only after losing his wings did he learnt to fly
Take your sorrow with you, for the pain will be of use to you....
Oh man of GOD! you keep smiling....
Tomorrow, you will again get a chance.

Each dream of his was shattered when he broke....
You will get a sight of GOD's will in your broken dreams.

Monday, December 6, 2010

"Who I am"- Kanchan Bagari

I don't know who I am.
I am not a believer inside the mosque
Nor a pagan disciple of false rites
Nor am I the pure amongst the impure.

I am not in the Vedic texts
Neither in opium, nor in wine
Nor in the drunkard's intoxicated craze.

I am in neither happiness nor in sorrow
Neither filthy, nor pure

Not from water, nor from earth
I am not born of the fire, nor from air.

GOD! I don't know who I am.
I am neither Arab, nor Lahori
Not Indian, nor Nagauri
I am not Hindu, Muslim nor Cristian.

I have not found the secret of religion
Nor am I from Adam and Eve
I am not in this name which I am known by.

I am the first, I am the last
I have never known otherwise
I am the wisest of them all
GOD! Do I stand alone?

I am neither Moses, nor the Pharoh
Neither awake, nor in a sleeping daze
I am not born from fire, nor from air
Nor do I live in Nadaun

I am not still, nor moving.
Oh GOD! Do I stand alone?

I don't know who I am.

All my life I am searching about the ans of this Qus.
Now I am feeling lucky cause I know who I am.

Thank GOD! Foe showing me light and giving me my way of life.
I need not to say to other people who I am.

I am alone but really alone?

Saturday, November 27, 2010

"I will never let you go"- poem by Kanchan Bagari

You & I

We are together, till the end of time.....

Promise I will never let you go,

Now that I know You are with me,....

I shall walk behind you

And break all my other ties..

I shall leave the path that does not lead to you..

I shall attach all my dreams and hope with you...

I shall break all my other ties with a smile

And tie a relationship of heart with you...

My life is now attached with your's

I have found my every happiness in you

Your talks have told me....

That I am usually in your thoughts

Every moment...Every second....

I keep you in my heart...

I wake up every morning with a desire to meet you

You are the smile of my lips, And the brightness of my face..

I can do anything for you ... coz now that I know you are with me...

You & I

We are together, till the end of time.....

Promise I will never let you go,

Now that I know You are with me,....

Promise I will never let you go...never let you go.


I'll be same, never change!!

"Make A Promise From Heart"- poem by Artist Kanchan Bagari

"Make a promise from your heart....

No matter where you go, my love

Keep your memory of me

The heart is telling to the heart....

Even if the weather changes....

You should never change,

On the path of love..... you should walk along

The uneasiness of love.....is saying the word of love

My life, keep your memory of me......

The heart is telling to the heart.....

Come back soon....................

after you've gone far away from me

Don't trouble me by making up things

In the moonlight night, In my sleep,

In my dreams, My life.....

Keep your memory of me.......

Make a promise from your heart....

No matter where you go......

Make a promise from your heart....

Keep your memory of me....

Friday, October 15, 2010

Indian Way Of Life

The Meaning of Culture:

Each of the religions of the world has its own culture, with many customs, traditions and refined qualities. The Hindu culture is a culture of love, respect, honoring others and humbling one's own ego so that the inner nature, which is naturally pure and modest, will shine forth. Here I have described some of the important faith and behaviors of Hindu community.

RESPECT AND REVERENCE:

1. RESPECT FOR ELDERS: Respect for elders is a keystone of Indian culture. This genuine acknowledgment of seniority is demonstrated through endearing customs, such as sitting to the left of elders, bringing gifts on special occasions, not sitting while they are standing, not speaking excessively, not yawning or stretching, not putting one's opinions forward strongly, not contradicting or arguing, seeking their advice and blessings, giving them first choice in all matters, even serving their food first.

2. NAME PROTOCOL: Younger never uses the proper name of their elders. The elder, however, may use the name of the younger. Children are trained to refer to all adults as auntie or uncle. Only people of the same age will address each other by first name. A Hindu wife never speaks the name of her husband. When referring to him she uses terms such as "my husband," "him".

3. TOUCHING FEET IN RESPECT: One touches the feet of holy men and women in recognition of their great humility and inner attainment. A dancer or a musician touches the feet of his or her teacher before and after each lesson. Children prostrate and touch the feet of their mother and father at festivals and at special times, such as birthdays and before departing on a journey.

Purity:

Purity and its opposite, pollution, are vitally important in Hindu culture. Purity is of three forms -- purity in mind, speech and body, or thought, word and deed. Purity is the pristine and natural state of the soul. Impurity, or pollution, is the obscuring of this state by adulterating experience and beclouding conceptions.

In daily life, the Hindu strives to protect this innate purity by wise living, following the codes of dharma. This includes harnessing the sexual energies, associating with other virtuous Hindu devotees, never using harsh, angered or indecent language, and keeping a clean and healthy physical body.

Hugging and Embracing:

Hugging and embracing is found in Hindu culture; but it is restricted to close relatives, Guru/disciples and associates that too in a private place. In Mahabharatha and Ramayana we find this very often. Hugging and Embracing improves pranic energy and this practice is not allowed with strangers.

NOT POINTING THE FINGER:

Pointing with the forefinger of the right hand or shaking the forefinger in emphasis while talking is never done. This is because the right hand possesses a powerful, aggressive pranic force, and an energy that moves the forces of the world. Pointing the index finger channels that force into a single stream. The harshness of this energy would be severely felt in the nerve system of the recipient. More properly, rather than pointing or shaking the index finger to give direction or emphasize a verbal statement, the entire hand is used as a pointer, with the palm up and the thumb held alongside the forefinger.

NOT THROWING THINGS:

Throwing any object on another person is considered extremely improper, even if the persons know each other very well. Cultured Hindus consider this crude and even mildly violent, even if done in efficiency or jest.

MODESTY

1.MODESTY: Interaction in public between men and women is much more restrained in Hindu culture than in Western culture. In Hindu culture, for the most part, men socialize with men, and women with women. Men never touch women in public unless the lady is very elderly or infirm.

2.DISPLAYING AFFECTION: Married Hindu couples do not hug, hold hands or kiss in public. Even embracing at airports and train stations is considered not wise. Men, however, frequently walk hand in hand.

A Indian Wife: A Good Hindu wife should always serve her Husband as God even if that husband is illiterate, devoid of good qualities.

Thats why it is always said that: "An Indian Wife is the best".


Saturday, August 28, 2010

"Sadness & Happiness"


If we want to avoid suffering and find true happiness we need to understand how the mind works.
1st we know - What is sadness?

Sadness is a feeling — it's one of the many normal human emotions, or moods, we all have. Sadness is the emotion people feel when they've lost something important, or when they have been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else. When they're lonely, people often feel sad.

When you're sad, the world may seem dark and unfriendly. You might feel like you have nothing to look forward to. The hurt deep inside may crush your usually good mood.

Sadness makes you feel like crying, and sometimes the tears are hard to stop. Crying often makes you feel better.

Sometimes when your mood is sad, you just feel like being alone for a little while. Or you might want someone to comfort you or just keep you company while you go through the sad feeling. Talking about what has made you sad usually helps the sad feeling melt away.

When sadness starts to go away, it can feel like a heavy blanket is being lifted from your shoulders.

Loss and Separation

This is the most common cause of sadness. It's a very sad thing to lose someone or something that you care about.

Changes

Changes that involve leaving something (or someone) behind, like moving to a new town or changing schools and leaving old friends can make you feel sad, too. Whenever some changes happened in our life we feel sad.

Disappointments

Disappointments like losing a game you hoped to win, getting a poor grade, or not being invited to a party can cause sadness. Sadness is a natural reaction to those things. How sad a person feels is usually related to how big or small the loss or disappointment is.

Relationships

Relationships bring happiness and fun much of the time. But tension or conflict in important relationships, or relationships that break up, can cause sadness, too. Many kids fight with family members, especially their parents, in the struggle to grow up and gain independence.

People often feel sad when all is not right between them and their loved ones, or when they get criticized or yelled at a lot. They fight about things like money, clothing, haircuts, school, and friends. In school, problems with teachers and grades may cause some sadness as well.

Sometimes with sadness, there are other feelings mixed in, too. When you're sad, you might also feel angry or guilty. You might feel like blaming others or blaming yourself.

So now we almost know all about sadness.

But we must learn how to fight with sadness and make our life happy.

So now we know about Happiness---

Unhappiness is something nurtured, you have learned it. Every credit goes to you for all your misery, but for happiness, you cannot have any credit. It is natural. You were born happy. You were happy in your mother’s womb….

Accept life as it is in its totality. You must look at the total: life and death together, love and hate together, happiness/unhappiness together, agony/ecstasy together. If you look at them together, then what is there to choose? If you see they are one, then from where can choice enter? If you see agony is nothing but ecstasy, ecstasy nothing but agony; if you can see happiness is nothing but unhappiness; love is nothing but hate, hate is nothing but love — then where to choose?

I know all these are not easy to understand so here are some tips to find happiness--

1. You choose.

How your view yourself and your world are conscious choices and habits. The lens you choose to view everything through determines how you will interpret what is happening. And from your interpretation you act. And all of this becomes your life.

You can choose to find happiness in small, everyday things. You can choose to interpret what happens in a positive way. Or in a negative way.

And your choices controls much of how much happiness your will find and create in your life.

2. Focus on the present, not yesterday or tomorrow.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.

You only have now. And now. And now. Yesterday is a memory and you cannot change it. Tomorrow is just a fantasy in your mind right now. So live more in the now, focus on the present moment and today. Think and worry less about yesterday and tomorrow. Otherwise you might miss a great deal of happiness that is available to you right now.

3. Don’t forget to be grateful.

One of the simplest and quickest ways to turn a negative and sour mood into a more positive one is to be grateful.

A few things you can feel gratitude for are for instance: The sunshine and the weather. Your roof. Your health. A good TV-show, a movie or a song.Your friends, family, co-workers and just about anyone walking down the street.

Just try if for a minute and see how it changes how you feel. And it’s a win/win solution. You feel great because you are grateful about your world and the people you are grateful for feel great too because they feel appreciated. So don´t forget about gratitude or you may forget about the happiness that is already in your life.

4. Help someone else find happiness.

"Happiness is like a kiss. You must share it to enjoy it."

When you make someone else happy – by, for example, helping them with something – you can sense, see, feel and hear it. And that happy feeling flows back to you. And then, if you’d like, you can boost you own ego by thinking something like: ”Wow, I really made him/her happy!”.

5. Get rid of a couple of your less valuable desires.

"That man is richest whose pleasures are cheapest."

If you want less instead of more, more, more then your desires are more likely to be fulfilled. And if you throw away a few of those desires that you may not really want or need that much anyway you’ll probably start to feel less stressed and worried. This is a calmer and better place to be to enjoy your day (tip #2) and to take the time discover the happiness that is already in your life (tip #3).

6. Do what you like to do.

"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful."

Yes do what you really like to do. But mostly we always think that how can we do this? What other people think if we do this? And many more things... so now its a time to do what you like to do. If there is something which is not harmful for other and by doing this you really feel happy then don't think about other and just do it.

7. Or at least do something.

One of the best ways to not find happiness is just to hold yourself back and do nothing. Seldom show up. Paralyze yourself through over analysis. It’s not always easy to take action, it can be scary and hard and difficult. But if you don’t take action you’ll be missing out on a lot. Including many moments, people and experiences that can bring you a lot of happiness.

So now don't think to much and at least do something for you to make yourself happy:-)